Once, Freya Stark said-
“To awaken quite alone in a strange town is one of the most pleasant sensations in the world.”
This fearless British-Italian explorer and travel writer was so keen on traveling…and I bet she went on many of her trips alone. Look what travelling did for her …she lived a 100 years and more.
I am not asking you to travel to live for 100 years…or yes, if that drives you. But if traveling adds a few happy decades to life, well, it’s worth considering, isn’t it?
And, while travelling won’t you wish to rediscover yourself? If yes, then traveling solo is what you need. Apart from self-discovery, there are reasons…some pretty good ones… why it’s worth every bit.
Now, before you decide whether traveling solo is actually for you or not, just read on. After all, you won’t have to book a flight ticket to read it.
Why travel solo when I can travel with family & friends?
Good question. Well, I won’t argue here that it is the best kind of feeling to travel with your loved ones….you make memories there.
But, traveling solo? That’s something else…entirely. More rewarding. And yes, every aspect of it is related to who you truly are…I believe, such a trip can bring out the truest version of you.
So…
- Confidence
When in a foreign land, you will do everything alone from navigating a foreign city to solving small mishaps, finding your way in foreign streets, ordering your first croissant in broken French…
Believe it or not, facing all those challenges alone will boost your confidence… immensely.
- Ultimate Freedom
Yes…it gives you freedom. You can plan your own itinerary the way you want it, change plans spontaneously whenever you want, and the best part is that you don’t have to convince anyone.
How does it sound?
- Connections
What if I tell you now that solo travelers are more likely to meet more locals and fellow travelers? Yes…they are more approachable. If you give yourself a chance, you will find yourself chatting with strangers, sharing your stories, and maybe even dancing at an unknown festival.
Would you let that chance go? I don’t think you would.
- Mindful Observation
Another thing…such solo travel makes one super mindful. Because you are there all alone, you need to keep yourself safe…that’s natural instinct. And, this instinct makes you more observant…
It’s needless to say that the mindful you will notice details, flavors, and cultures more deeply…leading to richer travel experiences in a foreign part of the world.
Last but not least, such kind of travelling helps one conquer fears …and, that’s some personal empowerment.
There’s one thing common in every solo traveler…. They came back different. More hopeful. More ambitious. More alive.
Now, can you go everywhere alone just like that? No. Not every place would be safe for such an adventure.
Best Destinations to Travel Solo
When it comes to choosing where to go, I’m a bit of a checklist person myself. I prefer to take into account the aspect of crime, cleanliness, local laws and weather of those destinations mainly. Still, safety is my major concern always.
- That’s why, first I chose…Japan. More specifically, Kyoto. Mild spring and autumn are perfect for this beautiful postcard-perfect city. Along with serene temples, you will find respectful locals here. Trust me, you will feel like staying there forever.

- Next is Switzerland. Go to Lucerne in the summer. It’s exceptionally clean, very safe for both men and women, and locals follow laws meticulously. Also, it’s where you will get the Alps.

- If you are into Europe, consider Austria too. There’s Vienna, Hallstat, Salzburg, Innsbruck…all the beautiful places of the world. It being one of the safest country in Europe makes it extra beautiful.

- And then, if you are in the mood for a crisp summer? Let’s go to Reykjavík, Iceland. Here, you will get the cleanest possible air and the friendliest of people.

Apart from these, top 4, you can always consider Melbourne of Australia, Copenhagen of Denmark and obviously ultra-safe Singapore.
And, if you are okay with extreme cold…keep Norway and Finland on your list. They will give you what you need most for such a solo traveling…. “High quality of life and security to its best”
Now, even if you decide to go to one of these places….are you ready for it? Well, you aren’t without your safety checklist. Therefore,
Solo Travel Safety Checklist
✔️ First of all, do not forget to photocopy important documents like passport, insurance, and IDs.
✔️ Don’t trust your phone too much. What if you lose it? That’s why, you always keep emergency contacts saved offline somewhere…maybe in a notebook or diary.
✔️ Don’t try to save money by booking hotels offering cheap rates, especially when you are traveling alone. Book only reputable accommodations with good reviews.
✔️ This one’s for female travelers mostly…learn some basic self-defense techniques or simply master the art of aiming pepper spray straight into an offender’s eyes.
✔️ Then, always have a backup plan for transport…in case you miss your booked bus or train. What will you do then?
✔️ Next, I would say save the local embassy’s contact information….you never know when it will come in handy.
✔️ Use anti-theft backpacks or money belts. Make sure you keep your money and passport close to you all the time.
✔️Last but not least..always carry a portable charger and local SIM/data access, otherwise, it’s possible that your solo trip will end at the airport maybe. This is the most expensive mistake…because it can make you buy a new phone.
I know, these few seem doable for many of you. And, honestly, if you keep all these in mind, you are 99% ready for your solo trip.
But, what’s in that last 1%? Some more tips maybe…

Travel tips for First time solo traveler
Everything has a first time, right? And, so when you are traveling alone for the first time…you need to do plenty of research to keep yourself updated about every minute detail.
- Know the local customs, laws, emergency numbers, cultural etiquette….everything. After all, when you know enough, you aren’t that afraid. You would be rather excited.
- Try to pack as light as possible…essentials only. And, you will see, how easy it is to carry, or even harder to lose.
- No matter how lazy you sometimes are with your communication, this is when you need to stay connected all the time. No no no…you won’t have to chat all the time. But yes, share your itinerary and accommodation details with someone you trust.
- I think a few words in the local language can be a lifesaver for solo travelers. This shows that you can show respect. That’s something valued everywhere. Also, I would suggest, dressing modestly and avoiding flashy jewelry to minimize attention.
- Last but not least, if something feels off, walk away immediately… your instincts are your best guide. Always.
Now, if you think you can follow all these…trust me, you are ready for your solo travel.
And you know, the rise of “solo travel” on Instagram has grown by over 150% in just the past 5 years? Yes, today, it’s no longer just a trend, it’s a lifestyle for many.
But, that’s no pressure on you. You first decide whether you need this kind of solo trip…if yes, then decide at which age you would like to try this. I would say, don’t do it out of FOMO. Just go for it, when you actually feel you are ready…
And, I believe reading more and more about solo trips will help you build your confidence. So, keep reading at your leisure time.
On this note, I would definitely bring on some more blogs on solo traveling eventually. Till then…stay tuned.
This is Rita, signing off.